Actions speak louder than words

   Actions speak louder than words.  By our actions --- and by 
   other things like the glint of our eyes, the expression on our 
   face, or the tone of our voice --- we give away what we really 
   feel, what we really think, what we really are.  These things 
   are what tell the truth about us.  It is on these things that 
   people "read us", figure us out, decipher us.  So often they 
   say something completely different from our words.  Our actions 
   so often belie our words.  And when they do we are false, we 
   are a hypocrite.  And people will see it, know it, and 
   categorize us accordingly.