Ethics and Etiquette at the Bridge Table
by Suzi Subeck

There are certain things players do just to be polite at the bridge table:

First, it is always correct to greet your opponents when they come to your table. It never hurts to get the proceedings off on the right foot, and you will be surprised how much more relaxed you, your partner, and the opposition will be. It is not necessary to introduce yourselves to each other, but what harm can it do? In novice situations especially, you may find yourself at another tournament without a partner and maybe left hand opponent will be there in the same situation. This could be your chance to meet up with a possible new partner as well as make a possible new friend.

Second, when laying down the dummy, it is always correct to say, "Good luck partner." And partner should respond with a friendly, "Thank you."  At this point, the table chat should cease, and the only chatter during the hand should be that of declarer asking dummy to play designated cards. (i.e. "low heart please" or "six of diamonds please")

When the round is over, it is proper to wish your opponents good luck, and they should do the same for you.

After the hand, gloating is deemed poor conduct at the table, however, it is fine to compliment either partner or opponent on a particularly good play or bid. Just don't overdo it.

During the hand, it is sometimes necessary to call the director. Again, there is a correct way to do this so that no one feels it is a personal attack on their character. The best way to call is simply to put your hand in the air and say, "Director, please!"

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