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Volume 1 Issue 8
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hen the woman saw that the tree was good for food,
and that it was A DELIGHT TO THE EYES, and that the tree was desirable to make
one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with
her, and he ate. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that
they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loin
coverings.” (Genesis 3:6-7) From the very beginning our eyes have caused us to
stumble and fall. In fact the Fall of mankind was accomplished by Satan using
Eve’s eyes to look upon something that God had forbidden. This was not a casual
glance, an inadvertent look, but an intense, thoughtful staring. Just glancing
at something that happens to come into our field of vision will not harm us. No
doubt Eve had seen the fruit of the Forbidden Tree many times before, but it
was not until Satan DIRECTED her eyes to STUDY the fruit that she succumbed to
sin. Satan is using the same tactic today to destroy and enslave the human
race.
To
think that what we regularly set our eyes upon has no effect upon us is the
height of foolishness. Advertisers know full well the impact that words,
images, shapes, and color have upon people. Market research is done on products
to determine the most enticing way to present them. Different colors effect us
differently. It has been shown that when food is packaged in blue sales lag. It
is thought this happens because most food is not blue, but rather yellow, green, orange, or red. There are exceptions
of course, such as blueberries, but in general blue is not a food color.
Advertisers use this information to manipulate what we buy. Generic food that
is packaged in black and white has no where near the impact upon us that color
does.
Advertisers
use the most beautiful women and the most handsome men, qualities that appeal
to us sexually, to sell everything. We are more likely to purchase a product if
someone whom we wish to emulate or find physically attractive is shown using it
or singing its praises. People who are overweight are rarely used to sell
products or become media stars. Women are referred to as “babes” and men as
“hunks” if they measure up to the standard of attractiveness the world prizes.
Both terms are offensive. They reduce the person to no more than a sex object,
something women have rightly criticized for years, but with the rise of
feminism women have shown themselves to be just as guilty. Commercials now show
women ogling men in the same way men have always ogled women.
Beauty can cause us to make unwise decisions. “Then Samson went
down to Timnah and SAW a woman in Timnah, one of the daughters of the
Philistines. So he came back and told his father and mother, ‘I SAW a woman in Timnah,
one of the daughters of the Philistines; now therefore, get her for me as a
wife.’ Then his father and his mother said to him, ‘Is there no woman among the
daughters of your relatives, or among all our people, that you go to take a
wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?’ But Samson said to his father, ‘Get
her for me, FOR SHE LOOKS GOOD TO ME.’” (Judges 14:1-3) This woman was a
Philistine, the enemy of Israel. Yet none of that mattered to Samson. His only
concern was to have this woman as his wife. It was not a happy marriage and
ended when she was given to another man after Samson left her for a time.
Job recognized the danger of looking upon a woman and thinking
about her. “I have made a covenant with my eyes; how then could I GAZE at a virgin?”
(Job 31:1) Job was wise enough to know that if he looked long enough at a woman
his heart may begin to be pulled away from his wife and adultery could result.
David should have made the same covenant with his eyes. “Now when evening came
David arose from his bed and walked around on the roof of the king's house, and
from the roof he SAW a woman bathing; and THE WOMAN WAS VERY BEAUTIFUL IN
APPEARANCE.” (2 Samuel 11:2) This gazing led to adultery and the eventual
murder of the woman’s husband. What we set our eyes upon absolutely influences
our actions. The purpose of God’s commandments, teachings, and disciplines are,
“To keep you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. DO
NOT DESIRE HER BEAUTY in your heart, nor let her catch you with her eyelids.
For on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread, and an adulteress
hunts for THE PRECIOUS LIFE. Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes
not be burned? Or can a man walk on hot coals, and his feet not be scorched?”
(Proverbs 6:24-28) The “precious life” spoken of here is the soul which
consists of our will, emotions, and intellect. This is what Satan wishes to
control and understanding the weaknesses of mankind he is a master at bringing
us under his influence. This is why Jesus so emphatically told His followers,
“If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him DENY HIMSELF, and take up his
cross, and follow Me. For whoever wishes to save his life shall lose it; but
whoever loses his life for My sake and the gospel's shall save it. For what
does it profit a man to gain the whole world, and forfeit his soul? For what
shall a man give in exchange for his soul?” (Mark 8:34-37) We must deny our
desires if they are contrary to the will of God. A woman or man may be sexually
desirable to us, but we DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT to act upon that desire if it is
sin. Much is made of homosexuality being a legitimate lifestyle because they
claim they were born that way and their love can be as genuine as that between
a man and woman. HOWEVER, the Bible clearly teaches that homosexuality is a
sin; thus, to indulge this desire is wrong. The homosexual must DENY HIMSELF,
take up his CROSS (an instrument of death) and cause the sinful desire to go
unfilled. Satan knows that what we
allow ourselves to look upon will govern our behavior.
Lest women think they are
immune from lusting after a man they should learn from Potiphar’s wife. “And it
came about after these events that his master's wife LOOKED WITH DESIRE at
Joseph, and she said, ‘Lie with me.’” (Genesis 39:7) When Joseph refused to
commit adultery with Potiphar’s wife she falsely accused him of rape. Joseph
was sent to prison as a result, but was eventually made a ruler over Egypt
because he maintained his integrity in the face of temptation.
When I was a child in Sunday
School there was a song we used to sing that contained the line, “Oh be careful
little eyes what you see.” It was not questioned whether what we looked at or
read molded and shaped our thinking, our sense of right and wrong. We were
taught that “whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right,
whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is
any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, LET YOUR MIND DWELL ON THESE
THINGS.” (Philippians 4:8) The soul (will, emotions, intellect) is comparable
to the womb for it brings forth from the seed deposited there by the spirit.
(This again shows the correlation between the soul being the feminine part of
man and the spirit the masculine part). If the spirit of the world is what is
sown into our soul then we will bring forth thoughts and actions that are
contrary to righteousness. “Because everything that is in the world, the
passionate desire of the flesh [the totally depraved nature], and the
passionate DESIRE OF THE EYES, and the insolent and empty assurance which
trusts in the things that serve the creature life, is not from the Father as a
source, but is from the world as a source.” (1 John 2:16 Wuest) However, if we
let the Spirit of God sow His truth into our souls then we will think Godly
thoughts and our actions will bring glory and praise to Him.
Over the last several months
there has been a number of shootings at
various schools by young kids. This has ignited the debate over gun control on
one hand and the influence, if any, the media is responsible for through
movies, TV, videos, and computer games on the other. The entertainment industry
argues that guns kill people, images the media produces do not. They point out
that no one goes on a rampage with a movie in each hand. What they, and most of
society it would seem, willfully close their eyes to is that while guns were
used to kill the BODIES of their fellow classmates, it is the media’s obsession
with sex, brutality, and violence that first killed or at the very least
deadened the SPIRITS of the killers. What these kids have seen on TV, at the
movies, satanic-laden rock concerts, and the games they have played at the
arcades and on their on computers, have WITHOUT QUESTION influenced the choices
they have made. Repeated exposure to any kind of behavior desensitizes us to
it. “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts good morals.’” (1 Corinthians
15:33) The King James Version reads, “Be not deceived: evil COMMUNICATIONS
corrupt good manners.” If the company we keep communicates sex, violence, and
satanic activity, corruption of holiness will result. What we see and set our
minds upon does affect our actions.
Violence in movies or TV
etc. does not in and of itself make one violent. Violence is part of the state
of fallen mankind. Cain killed Abel, not because he watched violence, but
because it was WITHIN him. “So it came about in the course of time that Cain
brought an offering to the LORD of the fruit of the ground. And Abel, on his
part also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of their fat portions. And
the LORD had regard for Abel and for his offering; but for Cain and for his
offering He had no regard. So Cain became very angry and his countenance fell.”
(Genesis 4:3-5) Abel’s sacrifice to the Lord was accepted, but Cain’s was
rejected. Cain felt God was being unfair, INTOLERANT by not approving of his
offering. Since Cain could not hurt God, he hurt the one whom God approved of,
Abel. Cain’s solution was kill that which stood in his way, that which he
perceived to be unjust. Man becomes violent when he does not get his way, when
he feels that his rights have been abused. Violence is the NATURAL result of a
spirit-dead, soulish creation. The soul is selfish, wanting only to satisfy its
needs and wants. However, the spirit that has been raised to new life by the
resurrection power of Jesus Christ is instilled with a SELF-SACRIFICING love
that not only desires the best for those who love in return, but also for those
who hate when good is given.
It was unchecked violence
and evil that caused God to destroy the earth with the Flood. “The earth was
depraved and putrid in God’s sight, and the land was filled with VIOLENCE
(desecration, infringement, outrage, assault, and lust for power). And God
looked upon the world and saw how degenerate, debased and VICIOUS it was; for
all humanity had corrupted their way upon the earth and lost their true
direction.” (Genesis 6:11-12 AMP) These words exactly describe our world today
and they should be a warning that Christ is coming soon. “For the coming of the
Son of Man will be just like the days of Noah. For as in those days which were
before the flood they were eating and drinking, they were marrying and giving
in marriage, until the day that Noah entered the ark, and they did not
understand until the flood came and took them all away; so shall the coming of
the Son of Man be.” (Matthew 24:37-39) When the consciences of children have
become so deadened that they kill other children it is a witness against
parents, adults, and society.
Parents are not there for
their children. The lust for power, careers are given first place in their
lives. Motherhood is despised and we are finding that the hand that rocks the
cradle really does rule the world. Parents in general and mothers in particular
have the power to curb the NATURAL violent nature that is in every child when
time is spent with the child instilling moral values, when time is spent in
SHOWING by example behavior that is sharing, loving, and forgiving. Children
imitate what they SEE.
Absent fathers are a
disgrace to their families. Any man who fathers a child and then forsakes his
responsibilities to provide not only money, but a home and family for the child
is worse than an unbeliever. That is not human. It is animalistic. God’s
punishment for such a one will be quite severe. “But if anyone does not provide
for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the
faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.” (1 Timothy 5:8) Fathers are a direct
representative of God to their families and many times what children think
about God, how they picture Him is the result of a father’s words and actions.
Sons learn to be responsible, to treat girls with respect, that being bigger
and stronger is not for the purpose of beating someone, especially their wives,
but to DEFEND and PROTECT her and their children. Daughters crave the love of
their fathers. They are supposed to learn what it means to be loved by a man
from a pure heart rather than used by a man. How children SEE their father is
often how they see God. What an awesome responsibility.
So, is the media responsible
for the increase in violence among kids and teenagers we are experiencing in
our nation? Not entirely. The breakdown of the family, consisting of the father
and mother through divorce, adultery, putting careers ahead of children, or
simply living together outside of marriage create a powerful environment for
wrongdoing to flourish. When mom and dad live lives themselves that are sinful,
immoral, or harmful, their kids will reject any teaching from them that
contradicts what they SEE. The hypocrisy of - do what I tell you, not what I do
- is met with scorn by our children, causing the authority of parents to be
quickly eroded. Discipline becomes almost impossible, creating a vacuum within
the child’s spirit and soul that the world is all too eager to fill with its
godless forms of leisure and entertainment. Hollywood must share a large
portion of the blame for the immorality and violence we are experiencing.
Jesus said, “But whoever
causes one of these little ones who believe in and acknowledge and cleave to Me
to stumble and sin - THAT IS, WHO ENTICES HIM, OR HINDERS HIM IN RIGHT CONDUCT
OR THOUGHT - it would be better (more expedient and profitable or advantageous)
for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be sunk in
the depth of the sea. Woe to the world for such temptations to sin and
INFLUENCES to do wrong! It is necessary that temptations come, but woe to the
person on whose account or by whom the temptation comes!” (Matthew 18:6-7 AMP)
The fact that movies, TV, video games, etc. are rated for content is
self-condemning to the entertainment industry. If what we see had no affect
upon us it would not matter if sex or violence was part of the movie. But even
as adults, much less children and adolescents it does affect us. Programs can
make us laugh or cry, stand up and cheer, or seethe with anger. Their influence
is so strong that they can make us root for the “bad guy” and wish evil upon
the “good guy”. Adultery is made acceptable and romanticized. Coarse language,
sexually impure comedy, and pornographic images are EXPECTED. Nothing is
sacred. Christian values are mocked and ridiculed; they are sacrificed upon the
altars of tolerance and political correctness.
The Psalmist recognized the
need to not look upon evil. “I will set no WICKED thing before mine eyes.”
(Psalm 101:3 KJV) Why? Because he knew, “The heart is more deceitful than all
else and is desperately sick; who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9) His
desire was that, “A perverse heart shall depart from me; I will KNOW no evil.”
(Psalm 101:4) The word “know” used here is the Hebrew “yada” and means “to
know, to ascertain by SEEING”. He refused to look upon evil because he knew
that his heart was inclined to act upon what he saw. Jesus told His disciples,
“For from within, OUT OF THE HEART of men, proceed the evil thoughts,
fornications, thefts, murders, adulteries, deeds of coveting and wickedness, as
well as deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride and foolishness. All these
evil things proceed from within and defile the man.” (Mark 7:21-23) We should
feed ourselves a steady diet of holiness and purity so that the evil that is in
our heart because of our fallen nature will be replace with kindness,
forgiveness, and self-sacrificial love. Refusing to look upon wickedness the
Psalmist goes on to say, “My EYES shall be upon the faithful of the land, that
they may dwell with me; He who walks in a blameless way is the one who will
minister to me.” (Psalm 101:6) To often it is the corrupt entertainment that
ministers to us with devastating result. We are what we see.
God is “a consuming fire.” (Hebrews 12:29) His fiery judgments will destroy all evil and wickedness that the godless practice. “Sinners in Zion are terrified; trembling has seized the godless. ‘Who among us can live with the consuming fire? Who among us can live with continual burning?’ He who walks righteously, and speaks with sincerity, He who rejects unjust gain, and shakes his hands so that they hold no bribe; He who stops his ears from hearing about bloodshed, AND SHUTS HIS EYES FROM LOOKING UPON EVIL; He will dwell on the heights; His refuge will be the impregnable rock; His bread will be given him, His water will be sure. Your eyes will see the King in His beauty.” (Isaiah 33:14-17) Behold the Lord and your heart will follow paths of holiness.
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