Caring for each other  So many relationships I observe are grossly deficient in true caring. People seem to exist together in the same location but do not appear to truly interact positively. being dependent on each other to “fix” some emotional problems within.

Attitude counts! Some people are so serious and bitchy about everything. Might that be a general unhappiness with their entire life or a result of not knowing how to let go at times and relax emotionally? These may well be the individuals who develop serious medical conditions or even die from their inability to enjoy. Is that really worth the total seriousness?

Touch and responsiveness is so important. It is proven that infants thrive when they are lovingly touched often. I’m certain adults respond in the same manner. Why are there so may people who inhibit themselves from this quite natural enjoyment? Have we, as a so called advanced society, determined that touching is inappropriate and almost always conveys a sexual message instead of another means of communication?

Spontaneous Moments  I rather like spontaneity, whether it be a sudden spurt of running together, a long deep kiss anywhere the mood strikes, or a touch. To be able to feel free in spirit is to relieve a great burden.

Visual I am definitely affected by appearance as related to women. Hey, lets be very real here, many of us do have that within us although some will not admit it. Our inner self constitutes much of what people hear and know of us, what is touched with the mind and heart. Our external self is what our partner touches with their body.

A strong personal preference of mine is a woman who is thin. Some have criticized me for this feeling but it is one I own. Some people have no problem with a large partner which is wonderful for them but my desires lean toward thin.